Mistress Elizabeth

New Client Instructions

 

     Mistress Elizabeth enjoys meeting new clients and enjoys making each clients sessions an enjoyable and fulfilling experience. In order to make the experience best possible experience for both Mistress Elizabeth and client. The following guidelines have been set forth so that all participants know and understand what is to be expected. Please review the guidelines so that you will be prepared for your first session.

 

Prescreening Process

New clients pay $75 booking (non refundable) deposit required. Applied to your balance the day you come play with me. Bring the balance in cash. You must Send Deposit  sent to Click Here

 

If you are coming to Me for the first time there is an essential pre-session consultation for all NEW clientele, as I will need time to talk with you by phone and discuss your preferences on your Session Request form you submitted to Me prior, go over health issues, the safe word etc. This does not intrude into the actual ‘play’ time. However, the consultation will last for no more than is necessary before the play date. 

 

You must confirm your appointment the day at noon of your appointment.  Call or text me so I know you are coming and will give the place to meet at that time.  

The Appointment

Don't book with the Mistress if you can't make it.

24 hour cancellation is required if you book a session with Mistress Elizabeth.

 

Be clean

 That means showered. Showering facilities are available. The Mistress prefers all pubic hair be neatly trimmed or removed entirely. 

 

What to Expect in Session

You will be required to pay up front. The Mistress requires all payments be in cash only. Your tribute should be and left on the little black table just inside her dungeon. 

 

On your first visit you will follow my instructions. The session will begin on my discretion. Act according to her directions -- Mistress Elizabeth demands strict adherence to conduct befitting a submissive. Don't have unrealistic expectations - the session will not match your fantasies perfectly. 

 

What NOT to Expect in Session

Realize that Mistress Elizabeth will not be taking off her clothes, massaging or letting you touch intimate body parts. The Mistress does not provide any type of sexual service. Do not ask. Mistress Elizabeth provides Professional Domination, NOT prostitution. She will follow all the laws and rules of the State of California and expects you to do the same.

 

Mistress Elizabeth does not play with anyone under the age of 21.  

 

My Limits

Mistress Elizabeth Does not participate in Scat.

No Switch -  True submissive

Long bondage scenes will be done under some circumstances, but The Mistress will not do a session where she ties someone up and leaves them alone for long periods.  It's not safe.

 

List your Fetishes

Please fill out Request A Kink Session Form. Pay attention to your fantasies, if you fantasize about a certain fetish frequently - usually you will enjoy it in session. Categorize your list into things that you (1) know you like, (2) are willing to try, and (3) do not want to do. 

Don't leave anything out.

 

Determine your Limits

Go back over your list. Estimate your threshold for each activity by comparing it to prior experiences with intense sensations that you found erotic (or past S/M scenes). Realistically evaluate whether you want light, medium or heavy play in each area of interest. Remember that each activity may be combined with additional sensory input during a session, which will multiply your perception. Novices should start with light play only; you can always increase the intensity. And most importantly don't say "you can do anything with me, Mistress" because Mistress Elizabeth will use that opportunity to satisfy her most severe sadistic urges thinking that you are one of the rare few who can handle it.  

Go over your likes/dislikes and make sure you have stated them clearly before the session starts. Speak up if she pushes beyond your limits -- Mistress Elizabeth appreciates the input without being threatened. Don't try to impress by surpassing your limits. Understand that the Mistress may have another client waiting so don't hang around so long that she has to come out and tell you about her next appointment. Help her to clean up. Demonstrate your gratitude - tell her how great the session was and that you want to see her again.

 

Follow Up

Your feedback is important to Mistress Elizabeth. Sometimes you will find activities that were unpleasant during session, were actually exciting afterwards. This is a common experience. Some BDSM is highly anticipated before, despised during, and relished after the act. That is a part of BDSM - doing things that you don't like. If you wish to see Mistress Elizabeth again -What was the positive and negative elements of your session so that you can pass that information to The Mistress Elizabeth the next time you see her. Adjust your list of limits if you have learned more about your preferences.